Expand the Deal

You may not be limited to the issues currently in play. Get your nose off the negotiating table and look around. Could the relationship between parties be expanded? What else do you have that they might want, and vice verse? Always be on the lookout for more stuff to trade.
Apply integrative bargaining (also called “interest-based bargaining” or “win-win bargaining”). It is a negotiation strategy in which parties collaborate to find a win-win solution to their dispute. This strategy focuses on developing mutually beneficial agreements based on the interests of the disputants. Interests include the needs, desires, concerns, and fears important to each side.

Be Ethical

Ethics is “A system of moral principles or values; the rules or standards governing the conduct of the members of a profession; accepted principles of right or wrong.” Ethics establishes the means of doing what is right, fair and honest. Why are ethics important in a negotiation?
Reputation plays a vital role in every negotiation. What are the ethical parameters of negotiation tactics? Can we lie? Can we deceive? Is there a difference? It’s much easier to achieve win-win outcomes when you have a reputation for being fair, honest and willing to do the right thing.

Admit Error

Is admitting error or omission a sign of weakness? False. Research shows that disclosing such information demonstrates honesty. In psychological terms, it breeds what is called “reciprocity.” If you do something for me, then I’ll do something for you. People are far more likely to be honest with you when you are honest with them.
Negotiation, at its best, consists of open, honest, and straightforward communication based on mutual respect and mutual trust.

Step Back

Don’t just keep talking. Take a conscious, purposeful step back into your presentation. One step forward; one step back; step together, and back again. This is the negotiati8on dance. You move together through the process, taking care not to step on each other. The dance is never confrontational or harsh, but smooth and in harmony.
You take a step back and try to postpone the discussion until you have more information. An example is postponing the salary discussion, at least until you have the information needed. By doing research ahead of time, you will feel confident knowing your worth. There is a point when the range, or your

Think Fast on Your Feet

One of the most popular causes of losing ground in a negotiation is lack of information. When you know the truth about something, you feel confident while discussing it. It shows in your way of talking, in a positive way that is guaranteed to impress the other party.
It is an important strategy to always have a back up plan. As they say, you should not put all your eggs in one basket. You should be asking yourself questions that start with how or what if? How can I sweeten the deal? How can I close the deal? What if the party likes this? What if they reject this? Try to come up with some alternatives that will help seal the deal.

Be Assertive

Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to say something, but didn’t, in order to avoid having a row? Or perhaps you got so angry that you had a violent outburst and regretted communication would have helped. Powerful people combine strength and sensitivity.
Lack of assertiveness can affect your relationships and quality of life, as you fail to communicate effectively and end up not getting what you want. Family life, career prospects and stress levels can all be affected by lack of assertiveness.

Build on trust

Trust is the basis for our drive to contribute.
Trust may develop naturally and gradually over time, but negotiators rarely have the luxury letting nature take its course. Thus it sometimes seems easiest to play it safe with cautious deals involving few tradeoffs, few concessions, and little information-sharing between parties. But avoiding risk can mean missing out on significant and better opportunities. For this reason, fostering trust is a critical skill for managers.
Remember that slipped commitments do not necessarily mean false commitments. Handle slippage by building trust. Rather than be accusatory, ask “what happened?” in a neutral fashion, and mean it. Listen carefully, correct collaboratively, and choose alternative resources when necessary.

Give and Take

It’s no secret than negotiating involves a lot of give and take. This includes the take and give of information. You’re revealing information about your needs and expectations while trying to gather information from the other side. The way that you give information can help foster goodwill and encourage the other side to reveal information that will help you reach the outcome that you want.
When we’re helping people learn how to negotiate better, we introduce the concept of the “nor, of reciprocity.” The rule reciprocation, which states that we should attempt to repay in kind what another person has given us, is the most compelling weapon of influence that humanity possesses. This is what makes us want to reciprocate when someone does something that’s helpful to us.

Be Human

Don’t try to be clever. In fact, don’t display cleverness. Talk softly and be pleasant. You’re trying to have the negotiator on the other table be on your side. People are more successful in closing negotiations when they are anchored on an existing and valued relationship. Share your troubles and problems if need be. You’re not trying to outsmart anyone here-you’re trying to obtain an amicable agreement with another person. This doesn’t mean you have to be good buddies with everyone you negotiate with. When she realizes she is not going against a ruthless opponent but rather someone who’s a real person, she’ll drop her guard and work with you.

Do Not Rush

Both parties need to feel comfortable with the pace and direction of negotiations. The other party might need time to consider more carefully the impact of conceding a certain point or option before moving on. You should respect this need, while still making sure to observe a flexible, but not open-ended timeframe for resolution.
Making decisions and solving problems takes much tie and energy. An example is that in the rush to complete a project, an individual or items often make hasty decisions, including decisions about which features will be included when the product is released.

Do Not Argue

Negotiating is about finding solutions. Arguing is about trying to prove the other person wrong. We know that when negotiating turns into each party trying to prove the other one wrong, no progress is made. Don’t waste time arguing. There is nothing more destructive to the negotiation process that the combative style. Professional negotiations try to preserve the relationship between the parties. The goal is not to reach an impasse in which neither buyer’s nor seller’s needs are met. The contract negotiation process usually begins with some degree of distrust between buyer and seller.

Re-Focus on the Issue

Maintain the relationship and try to resolve the issue (e.g.”What is a win-win answer for both of us?”). Summarize how far you’ve got. Review common grounds and agreements. Focus is on being partners, solving the problem. Intimidation is not the issue. Your deal is. No matter how abrasive your opponent is, you must restate exactly what was said to you without a nasty tone of voice. No matter how long it takes, keep bringing the discussion back to the real concerns: price, services, time periods and so on. Divide the issue into parts. Address a less difficult aspect when stuck. Invite trading (“If you will”). Explore best and worst alternatives to an acceptable agreement. At this point you may add “I apologize for the delay. I understand your frustration and anger. Can we put that aside and discuss settlement of our other issues?” (Refocus on real issues, legitimize the perspective of opponent.)

Use an Agent

The strategy or technique of using an agent or a mediator in negotiations should not be forgotten. Often it can be expedient to let someday else conduct your negotiation for you. It will be up to you to delegate the proper authority to your agent to ensure they can accomplish what you desire. Mediation uses a trained, impartial third party to help reach consensus on substantive issues among conflicting parties. Mediation takes a problem-solving approach rather than an adversarial one. While it can be desirable to have an agent for one’s own cause, it is best to avoid dealing with the adversary’s agent if possible.

Be Realistic

Aim high but be realistic. It is a fact that the higher you aim, the more you are likely to achieve. However, it is important not to get carried away. You are likely to lose your audience before you even start! Base you figure on what the market is offering someone of your experience, qualifications, and perceived value to the company.
87. You Can Say No
Women generally are more concerned about r4elationships; they tend to be more hesitant to say no. They want to keep everyone happy. Saying yes and then regretting it to unhappiness and stress at work.
In some work situations it could be damaging to your self-worth or even very dangerous to say ‘yes.’ Sometimes you will need to say no. Sometimes it is necessary to say no before you can get what you want.

. Ask for More

Once the other person’s given a figure, even if it’s much better than you expected, say something like “I think you’ll have to do better that that.” Don’t be arrogant or aggressive. Just say it calmly.
When they inquire about your expectations, ask for more that you expect to get. Ask for more than you are willing to accept- you can always settle for less. Few people will walk away from a deal once it’s commenced, and you can let the other expectations” a bit at a time.

Learn of Any Deadlines

Closely related to learning as much as possible about the other negotiating party is to understand the importance of time in a successful negotiation.
One of the crucial elements of real estate negotiation is time. Understand and master the use of time, and you can buy a home for thousands less. When you negotiate an offer to purchase a home, timing is important. The longer it takes to negotiate an offer, the more flexible a seller becomes. When a seller is more motivated, using time to your advantage will have a more significant impact on the negotiations. Alternatively, the longer it takes to negotiate an offer, the higher the chance that another buyer will make a better one. While it depends on the home seller’s situation, generally the longer a home is on the market, the more flexible a seller will be and the more impact negotiating time will have on them.

Defuse with Humor

Everyone has been angry and knows what anger is. Anger can vary from mild irritation ti intense fury, and can come from a variety of things (specific people, events, memories, or personal problems). Anger can come from perceives violations of rules. Rudeness can make a person feel vulnerable and exposed, which prompts anger. Feelings of shame may turn into anger. Anger can get out of control and become destructive and problematic.

Act Dumb

To skilled negotiators, acting smart is dumb. Actually acting dumb is brilliant. When you are negotiating, you’re better off pretending as if you know less that everybody else does, not more that they do. The dumber you act, the better off you are. Unless the other party is fully aware of all your credentials.
There is a good reason to act dumb in front of the other party. With a few exceptions, human beings tend to help people that they see as less intelligent or informed, rather than take advantage of them. Of course there are few people might take advantage of weak people. Generally people become competitive when among a smart group, or become helpful when dealing with people who they think are inferior to them. So, the main reason for acting dumb is to diffuse the competitive spirit of the other side.

Use a Decoy

Use a decoy while negotiating. It may be unethical negotiating tactic, but you should be aware that others do use it and you should be able to spot it when someone is using it on you. Unless you’re so familiar with it that you spot it right6 away, you’ll find that you will make unnecessary concessions just to get the other si9de to agree with your proposal.

Wait for the Second Offer

Seasoned negotiati9ons know that you should never say yes to the first offer (or counter-offer) because it automatically triggers two thoughts in hindsight in the other person’s mind: I could have done better or something must be wrong.
Never take the first offer. Even if the first offer is reasonable, don’t take it.
First, it makes you look overly eager, which gives the other side a greater sense of control. Don’t act too interested. Just giving the impression that you’re willing to walk away can do wonders for getting a better deal. Always play the reluctant buyer or seller.